Where Have You Been for the Last 20 Years?
A personal journey from 20 years of self-doubt to discovering the welcoming BSD community at BSDCan. Sometimes courage comes later in life.
Posts tagged with: life
MacBook Pro vs Car: Why Small Businesses Still Win
A personal reflection on how small businesses — from roofing repairs to tech support — often deliver greater value, care, and integrity than large corporations. Real people, real work, real trust.
When We Become Cheerleaders for Our Own Demise
Why do we become cheerleaders for our own demise? A look at "vibe coding", professional Stockholm syndrome, and our tendency to defend the very tools and systems that threaten our skills and autonomy.
The Azores High and the Symphony of Pistons
A personal reflection on seeking tranquility outside the city, only to discover a curious modern habit: the relentless use of cars for even the shortest distances. Why do we trade peace for the car keys, even in 'quiet' havens?
My Way
A personal reflection, set to My Way, on the inner journey towards authenticity and the quiet strength found in choosing one's own path amidst expectations
Forty
A poignant reflection on a sister's 40th birthday, filled with vivid childhood memories, shared joys, and an enduring, heartfelt connection.
Reconnecting After a Decade: A Pizza, Laughter, and a Shared, Shaking Memory
A heartwarming reunion with old friends after ten years triggers vivid memories of a terrifying earthquake and the incredible solidarity shown during that crisis.
Being a Bad Salesperson, By Choice
The conflict between 'good' sales tactics (pushing known platforms) and being a 'bad salesperson' who values understanding, control, and real client needs.
That Night in Athens
A memory from a 1998 school trip to Athens, and a night that unexpectedly defined a sense of self and freedom.
No Masks, Just Us
A personal reflection on quiet moments, NetBSD, and the idea of celebration beyond social expectations.
Tiny Tool, Small Lesson
A simple screwdriver, a lost item, and a small moment that reminded me why my wife's advice is usually spot on.
Why I'm Expanding My Blogging Presence
I'm reviving my personal blog to share thoughts, stories, and reflections that last—beyond the fleeting nature of social media. Technical posts will stay on IT Notes; everything else finds a home here.
That all started with the Big Bang
Some places stay with us long after we've left. This is about one of them — and the strange way a sitcom, a lightbulb, and an old memory are still all connected.