These scribbles, my kaleidoscope of thought, shall reveal the way I perceive the world.

Posts tagged with: life

The Broken Gramophone and the Stolen Land

Published on 2025-07-11 15:15:00 by Stefano Marinelli
The story of a broken gramophone and a piece of stolen land. A personal account of my family's legacy, caught between fascist violence and the calculated greed of those who wore the banner of anti-fascism for personal gain.

Your Exit Strategy Dream Is My Customer Nightmare

Published on 2025-07-04 07:40:00 by Stefano Marinelli
I found a promising tool and reached out to the founder, ready to invest and partner up. I was met with a wall of silence. It crystallized a feeling I've had for a while: for many, the exit strategy dream is a nightmare for customers who actually care.

Nomadic Soul, Habit-Loving Heart

Published on 2025-07-03 08:12:00 by Stefano Marinelli
A personal reflection on balancing a love for travel and exploration with the deep-seated comfort and reassurance found in everyday habits and rituals.

Where Have You Been for the Last 20 Years?

Published on 2025-06-17 15:30:00 by Stefano Marinelli
A personal journey from 20 years of self-doubt to discovering the welcoming BSD community at BSDCan. Sometimes courage comes later in life.

MacBook Pro vs Car: Why Small Businesses Still Win

Published on 2025-06-09 12:36:00 by Stefano Marinelli
A personal reflection on how small businesses — from roofing repairs to tech support — often deliver greater value, care, and integrity than large corporations. Real people, real work, real trust.

When We Become Cheerleaders for Our Own Demise

Published on 2025-06-05 19:23:00 by Stefano Marinelli
Why do we become cheerleaders for our own demise? A look at "vibe coding", professional Stockholm syndrome, and our tendency to defend the very tools and systems that threaten our skills and autonomy.

The Azores High and the Symphony of Pistons

Published on 2025-06-01 15:35:00 by Stefano Marinelli
A personal reflection on seeking tranquility outside the city, only to discover a curious modern habit: the relentless use of cars for even the shortest distances. Why do we trade peace for the car keys, even in 'quiet' havens?

My Way

Published on 2025-05-30 09:03:00 by Stefano Marinelli
A personal reflection, set to My Way, on the inner journey towards authenticity and the quiet strength found in choosing one's own path amidst expectations

Forty

Published on 2025-05-24 21:55:06 by Stefano Marinelli
A poignant reflection on a sister's 40th birthday, filled with vivid childhood memories, shared joys, and an enduring, heartfelt connection.

Reconnecting After a Decade: A Pizza, Laughter, and a Shared, Shaking Memory

Published on 2025-05-20 19:20:54 by Stefano Marinelli
A heartwarming reunion with old friends after ten years triggers vivid memories of a terrifying earthquake and the incredible solidarity shown during that crisis.

Being a Bad Salesperson, By Choice

Published on 2025-05-02 13:12:48 by Stefano Marinelli
The conflict between 'good' sales tactics (pushing known platforms) and being a 'bad salesperson' who values understanding, control, and real client needs.

That Night in Athens

Published on 2025-04-25 15:05:42 by Stefano Marinelli
A memory from a 1998 school trip to Athens, and a night that unexpectedly defined a sense of self and freedom.

No Masks, Just Us

Published on 2025-04-21 21:21:10 by Stefano Marinelli
A personal reflection on quiet moments, NetBSD, and the idea of celebration beyond social expectations.

Tiny Tool, Small Lesson

Published on 2025-04-19 08:39:22 by Stefano Marinelli
A simple screwdriver, a lost item, and a small moment that reminded me why my wife's advice is usually spot on.

Why I'm Expanding My Blogging Presence

Published on 2025-04-17 10:09:20 by Stefano Marinelli
I'm reviving my personal blog to share thoughts, stories, and reflections that last—beyond the fleeting nature of social media. Technical posts will stay on IT Notes; everything else finds a home here.

That all started with the Big Bang

Published on 2025-04-14 10:13:46 by Stefano Marinelli
Some places stay with us long after we've left. This is about one of them — and the strange way a sitcom, a lightbulb, and an old memory are still all connected.

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